By Abimbola Green Ajayi
A bad character is simply a behaviour that does not suit the person who is experiencing it. It is a negative attitude toward individuals. The term “bad character” simply refers to any individual’s unacceptable behaviour.
This character could be the result of a million different factors, but research has shown that character is built over time as a result of experiences.
Individual experiences have a way of defining who they are, especially when the individual is not intentional about changing and is unwilling to put forth the necessary effort.
Mide began dating Richard about two years ago, just as they were about to graduate from university. She is a lovely and intelligent lady. They’d been to a wedding together and were both on the bridal ladies’ and groom’s guest lists.
Mide drew Richard’s attention right away because of her height and fair skin. He found a way to get close to her and would stop at nothing to get her phone number.
It’s interesting how they both went to the same university but majored in different fields. This one factor helped their relationship because they met on campus right away and began enjoying each other’s company. A few weeks into the relationship, the lover agreed to meet up so that they could attend a seminar together.
Richard, on the other hand, was running out of time, and Mide was irritated by the situation. She kept dialing his number. He made an excuse at every turn of the dial. She left without Richard for the program and did not return his calls for nearly two days.
When she finally agreed to meet with Richard, she yelled, “I hate disappointment!” You’re not going to keep me waiting, she screamed, even while lounging. I told you my car had a problem, so how was I supposed to fly?
After a while of wondering why she had such a problem with anger, the discussion lasted over 45 minutes, and Richard finally had to apologize in order to avoid wasting any more time on a subject that he felt did not really matter.
Mide would scream at the top of her lungs whenever she was disappointed, and she would avoid Richard for days, if not weeks. They were both planning to settle down as husband and wife two years into their relationship.
One of Richard’s friends was supposed to drop off an itme for Mide, but he was about 15 minutes late. Mide, as usual, would not tolerate any form of disappointment, so she yelled at James, the friend in question. Mide smacked him.He walked away from her without saying anything.
Fast forward about an hour, and Richard called Mide’s parents to apologize. He stated that he would be unable to marry their daughter. She has a very bad personality, and I’ve been dealing with it for two years, but slapping a friend of mine was pick of it. Mide’s parents immediately organized a meeting, and Mide’s aunt happened to be a relationship counselor.
She pleaded that they do not end the relationship. Let us postpone the wedding so you and Mide can begin a session with me. She suggested.
However, Richard was over the relationship, and his friends were also opposed to a consoling session.
Mide’s aunty, on the other hand, took it upon herself to attend her sessions with Mide and, after about three months, weekly sessions. My father beats my mother whenever he is disappointed; he slaps her even if she is a minute late.
He despises it when he and his wife plan something and it does not go as planned. She gets beaten for it, and if a man can do that to a woman, why can’t I do the same to a man? Mide expressed her rage through tears.
Even before you were a teenager, your father had put a stop to it. Mide, you need to heal from your anger if you want to have a healthy relationship. We will have another three-month session. Fortunately, Richard’s parents have communicated with him, and he will be joining us. Her counsellor said.
